Frank Harmon-Later
Years Fresno Provo After Lillie Esplin Harmon died in 1958, her
daughter Lillian still had a year left as a missionary in Samoa. When she was
released in 1959, Frank N. Harmon decided to meet her in Hawaii.
While they were in Hawaii, word came that F.N. Harmon's
fifth grandchild, Carol, had been born to Ruth and Frank W. Harmon in Queens,
N.Y.C. (9 July 1959). To the right is a picture of her at one year of age.
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To the left is a picture of Frank N. Harmon and Lillian
on the streets of Honolulu. |
While in Hawaii, they tried out surfing, |
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and checked out the tourist sites in Hawaii such as the
Punchbowl Cemetery. |
In Laie (where F.N. Harmon was born in 1895), they
toured the Church College of Hawaii. |
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They returned to California on board the SS Matsonia in
July 1959 as shown on the roster at the left. |
In Provo Duane had finished his master's degree in
August 1959 and started a job at Montclair State College in New Jersey in
September 1959. |
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F.N. Harmon continued his work with grapes in Fresno.
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At right is a picture taken of him about 1960. |
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In 1960 he traveled with Duane and Lillian to see
Montclair and N.Y.C. On the left is a picture taken on the way at the Hill
Cumorah. |
Frank's daughter, Lillian made the move to New York
City the following year in 1961. She had finished her master's degree at the
University of Utah and moved to NYC to work on a doctor's degree at Teachers
College. She worked at the Agnes Russell Elementary School (a service school
for children of TC graduate students) and took classes at the university. |
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Duane worked full time at Montclair until the end of
the 1962 academic year. He then began his residency at Teachers College while
teaching part time at Montclair. The location of the Washington Bridge made the
trip from Montclair to Teachers Collge a bit more convenient. |
In August 1962 F.N. Harmon traveled to Orderville for
the funeral of Chastie Esplin (widow of Lillie Esplin Harmon's oldes t brother,
Israel). To the right are the gravestones of Chastie and Israel in the
Orderville Cemetery. |
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At the funeral he and Israel's daughter, Emily Esplin
Tanner got reacquainted enough to decide to get married. They were married the
22nd of November 1962. |
Emily had a grown daughter, Jo Ellen. She is shown at
right in a later picture when she had two children. |
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Emily also had a son named Leo, |
and a very small dog whose name I don't know. |
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A year later in 1963 Frank W. finished his doctorate at
Teachers College and returned to Utah to teach at Brigham Young University in
Provo, Utah. |
Meantime, Frank N. Harmon's mother's health had
gradually declined after 1955 when she was 84. To the right is a picture of her
on her 84th birthday.
She took turns living with daughters in the
St.George area. On the 10th of November 1964 at age 93, she died. Death Certificate for Alice Woodbury
Harmon |
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F.N. Harmon continued to be involved in
scouting. He took wood badge training ion 1964. Below is a picture of him with
other wood badge candidates.
He wrote two scholarly publications after 1958 - one on
a method of grafting (notice his hands on the cover), |
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and one on seedlessness in grapes. He was also involved
in the development of the flame grape and a rootstock which was highly
resistant to disease. ( named the "Harmony" after him) |
In 1965 he retired from work with the government. He
continued to work with grapes on his "farm" at 1742 S. Cedar raising flame
cuttings for farmers eager to produce the new grape. |
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The big wedding year was 1967 - both Duane and Lillian
were married that summer. Lillian married Gene Heil, a convert to the Church as
of the 9th of June 1963. They met in the choir of the Manhattan Ward. |
Gene was a free-lance photographer/interior designer
whose studio had gone into bankruptcy just prior to his joining the Church
(leaving him looking for something in life to hold on to). He found the
missionaries on the subway and true to his love of fine architecture insisted
that all his lessons be given in the beautiful old mansion on Fifth Avenue
which was the Eastern States Mission Home and Office. |
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Lillian and Gene set their wedding date for
June 10, 1967 at the St. George Temple. Below is the wedding party on the
temple grounds.
They returned to Provo and had an open house at Frank
W. Harmon's newly completed home Provo home on 1393 Apple Avenue. |
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Below is the wedding party in Provo - taken in
the backyard of the Frandsens across the street.
Gene
Heil did portraits of the family at that time. Below are the portraits of the
four Harmon children.
To the right are the portraits Gene did of Frank W.
Harmon and Ruth Rockwood Harmon. |
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Later that summer Duane Harmon married Lynette
Anderson Dorgan. They also met in the Manhattan Ward. Lynette had come to NYC
with her four girls (shown in the picture below) to do further studies in
nursing at Teachers College.
Since Lynette's temple sealing
cancellation was not final in 1967, Duane and Lynette were married in the
mission home on Fifth Avenue as seen in the picture below.
Below
is the wedding party on the front steps of the Mission Home on Fifth Avenue.
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Having F.N. Harmon in Manhattan for the wedding gave
Lillian and Gene a chance to show him the sights in N.Y.C. Gene was delighted
to find that his father-in-law was enthusiastic about everything even though he
sometimes fell asleep during some of the trips on which he was taken. |
Duane finished work on his doctorate and accepted a job
at Southern Connecticut State College in New Haven. So the Duane Harmon family
moved to New Haven. |
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Meanwhile F.N. Harmon's stepson Leo was growing up. To
the left is a picture of F.N.Harmon, Emily and Leo. |
Frank N. Harmon and Leo joined Frank's school friend
from St.George, Frank Crosby, on a trip to Mexico (probably Tijuana). |
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In June of 1968 Lillian and her husband Gene were
visiting his mother in upstate New York. To the left is a picture of his
mother,Louise Lieber in front of the gate house at Long Lake, New York. |
Gene was killed in an automobile accident as he
returned to Long Lake late at night after doing some free- lance photography.
To the right is the funeral service which was held in Manhattan. |
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Gene was buried in the small cemetery at Long Lake with
F.N. Harmon dedicating the grave. His mother (who died in 1982) is in the grave
beside Gene. |
In June of 1969, F.N. Harmon's 6th grandchild was born
- Brian Harmon, son of Duane and Lynette Harmon. To the right is a picture of
him at age 5 months.
Birth
Certificate for Brian Harmon |
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After finishing the work on her doctorate Lillian
Harmon Heil took a job at Church College of Hawaii and moved to Laie in time
for the fall semester 1969. |
In September 1969 Frank N. Harmon joined the members of
the 338th Field Artillery for their 50 year anniversary. To the right is a
picture of him with some of his army buddies. |
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Duane's wife Lynette received the sealing cancellation
for her marriage to Gilbert Francis Dorgan on July 20, 1970. On August 14,
1970, the family joined together in the Salt Lake Temple to see Lynette, Duane
and Brian sealed as a family. |
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In the fall of 1970 Frank N. Harmon's oldest
grandchild, Brent, was called to a Spanish speaking mission in California.
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During part of that time he was in Fresno where he was
able to visit his grandfather occasionally. |
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Because of his continuing scout activity Frank
N. Harmon received the Silver Beaver Award reported in the Fresno newspaper in
January 1971.
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F.N. Harmon often made trips to visit his brothers and
sisters. To the left is a picture of him with his youngest brother Elmer and
Elmer's son Melvin (and family) in 1972. |
Frank Harmon considered getting married again in 1972
to Sadie Bower (of Fresno) but it did not work out. To the right is a picture
of him, Lillian Heil and Sadie Bower. |
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In April 1973 his grandson Brent (returned from his
mission) married Karla Stoker and they made their home in Idaho. |
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In late summer of 1974, Frank Harmon made the move from
Fresno, California to Provo, Utah. (Lillian had enough room for him in Hawaii
so he had agreed to move there or to Provo if she got a job at BYU Provo) |
By 1974 the great grandchildren began to arrive. Theron
was born to Karla and Brent Harmon in May 1974. This picture was taken of him
at Christmas time 1974. |
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The family picture at the left was also taken at
Christmas time in 1974. |
Frank was a pleasant addition to the household because
he was so appreciative. He sat down to meals saying, "Good food, good food,"
before he had even tasted any of it. |
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He enjoyed activities at BYU and soon had his own
activity card. |
The garden changed after Frank Harmon came there to
live. He brought cuttings from California, and N.Y. experiment stations. The
N.Y. grapes stood the Utah weather better than the ones from California. |
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He had been raising thousands of cuttings in Fresno so
the first grapes in Provo were planted a foot or less apart (as a result none
of the vines could grow very large). When the family tried to get him to thin
them, his reply was, "Give them one more year." Thinning had to be done at
night after he had gone to bed. |
In January 1976 the second great grand child arrived -
Michelle, daughter of Karla and Brent Harmon. To the right is a picture of
Karla and Michelle taken in May 1976. |
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Frank Harmon always joined the family for trips. In
August 1976 the family went to Glacier, Yellowstone and Jackson Hole. F.N.
Harmon missed only one of the activities - canoeing down the Snake River near
Jackson. He had caught a cold at a rainy campground and was sleeping it off in
their hotel at Jackson Hole. (He was never without a rain coat after
that). |
That fall Carol persuaded her grandfather to buy a
horse which wasn't hard because he was a horse lover. To the right is a picture
of Carol with her first horse. |
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He was active in all church activities - especially the
"active" ones like being a door greeter or picking up apples at the welfare
farm. To the left is Frank Harmon in action on the welfare farm. |
In August 1977 the family trip was to the Corn Dance
and such sites as El Morro with all its ancient autographs carved into
sandstone. |
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He also took time to get acquainted with great
grandchild, Michelle. |
And to go to family reunions in St. George. This family
picture was taken at one of these get-to-gethers. |
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The third great grand child was born in February 1978 -
Neal Harmon born to Karla and Brent Harmon. The picture to the left shows him
at about 1 ½ years. |
In April 1978 the family trip was to the east to visit
his son Duane and family and see such sites as Sturbridge Village in
Massachusetts. |
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In Washington DC the Harmon family lost F.N. Harmon for
a frantic afternoon while visiting the museums near the White House. (He had
gone to sleep in a museum, woke up and took off- walking right out of the park
area). The picture at left was taken before he got lost. |
Shortly after that visit to Duane and his
family. Another grandchild was added - number nine - Robert Lindsay- born to
Duane and Lynette in July 1978.
Birth Certificate for Robert Lindsay Harmon
Below on the left is a family photo of Brian and Robert when Robert
was about one year old. On the right is a picture of Robert at age 10.
To end the 1978 year
with a grand activity the family rented a houseboat on Lake Powell. The most
dramatic and memorable moment didn't get recorded on film - the pet black
panther sitting on the front seat of a pickup. We had stopped to help the owner
of the pickup because he was stuck on an icy road. Below is a picture of us
getting ready to board the houseboat.
Because Lori had missed the trip to Glacier, Lake
Louise, and Jackson Hole (while she was on her mission), she, her father,
Lillian Heil and F.N. Harmon went down the Salmon River on rafts. To the right
everyone is getting on their life jackets before getting in the rafts. |
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Below is a picture of the family reunion held
later in the summer of 1979.
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When Frank Harmon's vision and age made him a driving
hazard he consented to sell his car and thereafter made one, two, or three
trips a day (depending on whether or not he remembered going) to get cookies
raisins and bananas. |
Another on his favorite list of foods was
bananas. |
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Early in 1980 (February 3rd) the fourth great
grandchild, Daniel(son of Karla and Brent) was born. |
His birth inspired a picture of four generations of
Harmons shown at the right. |
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Frank Harmon let his family know he would like to see
Alaska so in June 1980 he and Lillian took the inland passage cruise on the SS
Prinsendam. |
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At left he watches as the ranger guides for Glacier Bay
were picked up. |
On the right he relaxes in a deck chair (not the
warmest of cruises - notice all the coats and jackets on the passengers.) |
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In August of 1981 his oldest granddaughter
Lori, married Clyde Thomas. Below on the left is a snapshot of Lori as she came
out of the Provo Temple. Below on the right is the official wedding picture.
Another family reunion was held in August 1981. The
picture below shows the group collected around Frank Nelson Harmon.
In
December 1981 The Harmon family based in Provo decided to drive down the coast
of California in a rented motor home(They learned they didn't want to own one -
too many mechanical problems and too hard to get out of small roads in camp
grounds). The number of people who trooped off the motor home was a constant
source of amazement to bystanders.Below is a picture of all the passengers in
the motor home.
On that trip visits to scenic spots included
the Rose Bowl Parade, Sea World in San Diego and Scotty's Castle in Death
Valley as shown in the picture below.
F.N.
Harmon caused a bit of worry on that trip because he would forget he was on a
moving bus and frequently walked to the front door announcing that he was going
for a walk.
In November 1982 Great Grandchild number five - Jeffrey
was born to Karla and Brent in Idaho. To the right is a picture of him about a
month later |
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In December Frank Harmon's grandson, Richard,
married Stacy Sipherd. Below is the wedding party outside the Provo
Temple.
Another wedding picture was taken at the reception. It is
shown below
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In May of 1983 Frank N. Harmon's 6th great grandchild
was born to Lori and Clyde Thomas - Derek. At left he is being held by his
great grandfather. |
During the winter of 1983 F.N. Harmon slipped
on the ice and broke his arm. Since he never remembered it was broken, the only
way to keep him from making his daily walks on icy sidewalks was to hide his
shoes. That December the family rented two condos on the Baja Peninsula, a
place called Las Gabotas. F.N. Harmon was not feeling good but with his typical
good humor when asked how he liked the ocean, he replied, "I'll buy it." Below
is a picture of the group at Las Gabatos.
Map Showing the location of Las Gabotas
At home doctor's diagnosed his problem as a blockage of the
urinary tract - uremic poisoning. During the operation the bleeding was
difficult to stop. He was in intensive care for several days with a very slow
recovery and loss of memory about locations in Provo. Below is a picture of him
with the family taken in the spring of 1984.
In June 1984 he was upset because family members told
him not to eat strawberries(he had diabetic tendencies). He left in a huff and
family members couldn't find him. Search parties in the stake and police
bulletins were of no avail. On June 25th a boy out with his dog found F.N.
Harmon's body on a hillside overlooking the freeway on Grandview Hill. To the
right is the message his son, Frank W. Harmon wrote to the
ward.
Below is Stake President John R.
Christiansen's message to the Oak Hills Stake about the search and thanking
everyone for their efforts. |
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Frank Nelson's Harmon's funeral was held on June 29,
1984. The program is shown at the left. |
The program cover shown at the right (a drawing by his
grand daughter Carol) of grapes - the plant on which he spent so much time
studying and researching. |
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Frank N. Harmon's funeral was a celebration of
a life well lived.
Funeral Talks at Frank N.
Harmon's Funeral
Newspaper Articles
telling of the Circumstances of his death
One of the favorite
stories about him (as his short term memory got shorter) was when his son Frank
W. was made bishop. A neighbor congratulated F.N. Harmon about his son's new
assignment. He looked mildly surprised and said, "I do hope he's worthy." The
hope of the family left behind is that they will be worthy to rejoin him when
their earth life is completed, and that those 8 families or individuals who
came from the Isle of Man, England, Scotland and the eastern part of the United
States will be pleased with the values and actions of their descendants through
Frank Nelson and Lillie Esplin Harmon. |
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